Have you ever had a random dream about your ex wanting to get back together?
Did that ever happen to you? If so, how did you feel?
Did it bother you? Does it still do?
And finally, are you curious about what could be the possible spiritual reason why you dreamt of him wanting you back?
If you’ve answered yes to most of these questions, then keep on reading.
I might have the answer that you’ve been looking for since I went through the same thing!
Dealing with a breakup
Breaking up with someone you used to love or still love is hard and healing even more so. But what makes it harder is when you can’t seem to avoid them, even when you sleep!
Yes, I know the feeling. I’ve been there. Ever since my ex and I broke up, I have tried to heal in the healthiest ways possible that I know.
But of course, it wasn’t that easy, especially when, even in my dreams, I saw him.
Seeing my ex in my dreams is one thing. It would’ve been easier if he was just there in the background and minding his own business.
I’ve had dreams like that where important people in my life were just wallflowers. Some wouldn’t even say a word.
But dreaming of my ex, asking me to give him a chance and wanting to get back together? Truth be told: it sucked.
It made me feel different kinds of emotions in my dreams and even in my waking life. It made me question if breaking up with him was the right thing to do, and it had me rethink our decision to end it.
Was it really for the best? Am I going to be miserable from now on?
At first, I thought the dreams I was having were simply because we just broke up at the time. It was just a few days after we decided to end things. I shrugged it off and assured myself it was normal.
“It will stop even, eventually,” I told myself. I even asked my friends, and they all shared the same sentiment.
Except, it didn’t stop, and some dreams got more vivid than the next one.
Even when years have passed since we ended our relationship, I still have dreams of him wanting to be together again.
It started to bother me, so I started to gather intel.
And according to my research, there can be different spiritual meanings for why this happens:
1) You share a strong spiritual connection with your ex
Maybe you’ve let go of your soulmate, and their presence in your dreams is the universe’s way of reminding you of your cosmic bond.
Soulmates have an unbreakable connection that can transcend space and time. They can communicate with each other beyond ordinary human senses.
Some people even believe in soulmate telepathy!
So, if you’ve cut off your connection with them in the conscious world, like if you blocked them on social media, for example… Maybe your ex wandering around in your dreams means that the spiritual connection is still strong!
2) Your ex’s absence reflects what’s lacking in your life
So if it’s not a spiritual bond, maybe their absence is guiding you to examine certain aspects of your life.
It’s natural to miss your ex if you shared some of your best experiences with them, and there’s no use in resisting or denying these feelings!
But remember, missing them should not always be seen as a sign that you want to get back together.
Maybe their absence is forcing you to take a hard look at how things are going in your life.
The pain of dealing with a breakup can be transformative and can be used as a tool for growth.
It might mean that you are trying to discover or unlock something about yourself or that you might go on a personal journey to better understand your emotional needs.
3) You want them back
So, if it’s not a sign to take a personal journey for growth, maybe the reason is simply that you want them back.
It can be difficult and complicated to miss an ex. It can be because of so many things!
Maybe it’s your desire to be with someone you’re already comfortable with, or that you’re yearning for the same emotional connection you once had.
But if you’ve convinced yourself that perhaps it’s because you want them back, just be careful not to romanticize the relationship.
You might fall into the trap of obsessing over the good things and choose to ignore the unpleasant ones when you miss someone.
Looking at your past through rose-colored glasses might make you think that everything was better than it truly was.
It makes sense to repress ugly and painful memories, but ask yourself if you really want to get back together with your ex because you want to give it another chance, or if it’s a last-minute effort of trying to relive the good times.
I know there’s a lot to unpack here, but there’s time to do all of that. Just don’t do anything drastic.
4) You have unfinished business
While missing an ex might undoubtedly be a sign of wanting to start over with them, it can also suggest unresolved emotions or unfinished business.
This can include unsolved disputes or conflicts as well as more serious issues like trauma or emotional scars.
For example, you see your ex in your dreams because you believe that there is still work to be done when it comes to intimacy and trusting each other, especially if these areas were always a point of conflict between the two of you.
You might also see your ex in your dreams because you feel like there is still more healing to be done if the relationship was especially intense or if there were big emotional wounds that were never fully addressed.
It’s okay, tell yourself that recovery takes time.
And this process is particularly challenging, but in the end, it will help you to move forward.
5) You’re destined to be together.
And when you’ve healed and forgiven your past, maybe dreaming about your ex has a higher purpose.
When the universe conspires for you to reunite with your ex, one of the first signs is their presence felt in your dreams.
The cosmos has its own ways of bringing individuals back together who were meant to be.
Dreams can be very powerful and potent in determining your life’s direction.
The points we cover in this article will give you a good idea of why your ex wants you back in your dream.
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Decoding the universe’s messages
Personally, I don’t know which of these apply to me. But one thing is for sure. Having recurring dreams of your ex wanting you back means something. It just depends on what you choose to believe it to be.
After breaking up with my long-term boyfriend, you’d think I would have stopped having dreams about him. Unfortunately, I still do.
And I honestly can’t tell if it’s because the breakup was traumatizing for me or because I still have feelings that I have repressed.
When we go through a breakup, we experience pain and loneliness. All of these unwanted feelings and negativity affect our energy and the vibrations we put out to the universe.
I remember when I broke up with my first boyfriend.
I spent five precious years with this person, and now he’s out of my life. I wanted to move on quickly and so badly that I did everything I could to avoid seeing him.
Moving on was never really easy, and the breakup traumatized me.
And probably, that’s the reason why my ex shows up in my dreams.
When I see him sometimes, I feel sad. Sometimes, I feel somewhat happy. Other times, I feel nothing!
But if I really think about it… I don’t really want my ex back.
The “happy” feelings that I sometimes feel may be because of nostalgia. And as I said earlier, that can be a trap!
So, I’ve decided that the reason he shows up is probably to remind me that I should choose myself, and that’s good enough for me.
We can’t talk to the universe.
But that doesn’t mean that the universe cannot communicate.
It talks to us in different ways, such as our dreams, and we may or may not notice.
If something keeps on happening to you, especially if it’s in your dreams, listen.
The universe might be telling you something.